He was a nice chettan. Means he is looking goof,, he has nice manners, he has no bad intentions, just straight forward. He is a devotee of hinduism. He is from a very good Nair family. he has education, he is self sustainable. He was soo nice..
But the problem is his first wife left him and Gone to somewhere with Someone. It is said that the first wife speaked very bad languages in their house. Always degrading the chettans Masulinity. She yells everyday "nee ok oru annanoda..? ". This thing is so racial. Girls complaining abt the Boys Power and degrading his gender. The old generation boys was not witnessed to such bad Verbal abuses. The problem with new generation boys is that they arr being So nice in their personality. They are soft hearted. Soft minds. They are thr boys that wish for a happy married life. They are the Boys hat wish for a peacefull life with no conflicts no verbal abuse or anykind. They think with the Knowledge they have they can live such a life. When they give respect to girls and actso nicely they wil be loved and treated good. Such boys,(a majoriyy in new generation) will face many problems.
Their concept is Distorted or Unreal. They work hard everyday to be so nice but everything ends up in vain. They dont smoked cigarettes or done anything. Thry just like to be treated like girls so smmothly and so softly because they cant handle anymore problems or traumas. So they just be nice..
The chettan i told in this story is an excellant example and Representation of modern geneation Nice Boys. Robert glovers book "No more Mr Nice Guy" says and discuss this problem that affected the generations by programming from mothers to be nice and gentle.
The main problem is that girls love this men at first. They like gentle mans. This nice guys have a very good friend circle. Like in fb and all they are liked by everyone. Techers and all love them. But in life thee are lot of conflicts. Being a nice guy is not a soution.
BE A MAN NOT A 'NICE' MAN..
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