The real state of many Single Man in Kerala.Those who took an ignorent attitude to the Modern technological changes in the world we're started to face adverse Rejections in their Relarionships.
A Large no of Arranged marriages ends in vein because the man don't know how to use WhatsApp or Facebook or any modern form of Social media.I think this doesn't drastically affected the women population as most of them have inborn curiosity towards technology.Similar Incidents has happened like Men being rejected on marriages because they don't know how to ride bullet or don't have a bullet.Nowadays girls tell their fathers that they need a man who ride bullet bikes.Ofcourse that was not a Very big deal but Having such tendencies has destroyed the Relationship sector.
New notion of man is so different.In today's generation success means daily status updates with Beautyfull backgrounds and striking captions,and daily trips in Royal enfild bullets to distant lands and all sort of show offs..
You know the fear among the growing Population of Kerala is the state of Loneliness or Solitude.Nowadays people need Trips and Large group of friends to nerve them.The main fear is that wheather we became alone in this ever changing world.If you lose a lap by seconds that means the other one will take your place and lead you so they are successfull.
Everyone are getting accustomed by this idea of Competitive world.Every guys are competing against each other you know there is nothing like A long term Acceptance if u behave to someone good today then he acts good to you today.Your negative Emotions needs to be suppressed so much that u need to act like they don't even exist.The dark side of Man is being extinct.Nobody supports it or Proliferate it.Everyone like the decent side the one that acts with kindness and respect.The one that acts Noble.
Recreation
Wednesday, 28 March 2018
Thalathil Dineshan Reloaded
Thursday, 15 March 2018
Opporrunitied
When I thought about my life the different events that happened in my Life.when looking to the past I felt a strong grief in my heart.i always wished an alternative life but God gave me something different.we have always heard about the Simple saying your fate is your decisions but I don't believe in that.when I came to this college I wants to be the top class student in this college and I decided to work hard but it seems working hard is not the only thing that is needed for success.god has programmed something for me before he sent me to this college u know.opportunities come and go but if u really believe in the purpose of God.why he made u like this,why he made you walk in a path so different from your dreams,why he made you so frustrated and depressed.there is an answer losing deep in everything.I still believe in my journey,I don't care if it is filled with success,but I respect it so much and embrace e t
Tuesday, 13 March 2018
Kurangini Forest Fire
A group of Trucking people died of Forest Fire in Tamil Nadu Forest Area near Korangini,Theni..The List of People who dies include a Malayalam group who were It professionals and also group included a newly wedded couple who planned their trucking trip to then I on the Last october.Unfortunatelu their wishes came to be a disaster as Forest catches Fire.Two of them were burned to death.The Tamil Nadu government has given rs 4 lakhs for seriously injured people and 50000 for mildly injured ones.
It was a Irony that out of 38 people's in the forest 28 were women and how that much women were in the trucking.What is the Reason?.If women's start to flood to forest areas without precaution what will be the state of Forest and Tourism.you see this is something to be taken into consideration.the growing trend of women's who became craze of Tours and truckings have made such news a common happening.
The changing Notio
So The one i loved so much,respected so much came to tell me that "Strengths are those that has to be displayed and No point in hiding them and let the rest of the world think..who cares".As a man i was so much Affected by such a dialogue.It haunted me for Months and i was not able to find a Meaning to the "strength" that she described in her Words.What made her So courageous and confident enough to say such a remark about me?.On what notion did she measured me?
This thoughts get haunting in my head still now..
You know I am a not So Masculine Boy.Whatever others think.I had my own problems that happened in my life..Problems that are large enough to define who i am now.I understamd that i had gone through many hurtfull feelings in my past.its my story..But Society dont accept me.
So when a girl teases u about ur Manhood what should u do u should tease her about her Womenhood.does that makes sense?
There are no notions for a Perfect women or a Genereal women..Everyone says she needs to be smart and Intelligent.But noone really cares those things.
So All those Narcissist Womens out there who were Surrounded by Jerks were infact Confidemt because they are Beautyfull..!
Thats it! Nothing more powerfull in this world than a Beautyfull girl.
Whatever but i am fed up with believing the Beautygirl concept..Yes it is strong and rooted in my mind.Thats why i feel insecured about myself when i confront a beautyfull girl.See they are Perfect Ideals of Womenhood so We know the Reality that "They will get anyone they want..".Not only us they also know that..
So the first answer to my first question is this.What makes her so courageous pr Confident to arise such a remark?
Yes she made such a remark because she herself is superconfident about her Womenhood.
Now secondly the meaning of Strength..I think she really meant is that.even though she is a girl.she can mimic most of the Jobs that a man does with someehat nice accuracy.So she finds hereself a super ideal women model who is a ideal girl that fit the Beautygirl concept and the girl that fit the Masculine Boy concept.So what is she she was Both.!Yes this is Where Narcism lies their superconfidence lies there.They have rescue fantasies because they themselves consider as someone with superpowers..
So Basically I need to Say that all those Bad incidents,Bad verbal abuses that i get or a Bad Personality image that i formed from her remarks made me think of a Solution to my own problems.
I Learned something called Yin-Yang concept based on Taoism.That women have man essence in him and Man have women essence in him.
So those womens that cultivate this man essence and Man that cultivate their women essence that is what The Succes lies in..
My new Notion of Antifemnism consist of Cultivating my feminine part inside me.So i can Tease any girls if they make bad remarks on me in future.
I want to take activities that a Normal women does.From Wasing the Dish in house,washing my clothes,Cleaning and tiedying up rooms,cooking my own food and everything an ordinary women did in Past.Because when womens chanhe their ways,they find new things they became self capable of many things they dont longer need a man.
So what man wants to do.do the Same they want to change their ordinary Ebolutionary duties like striving for a Job.
And Making money for family.Looking after child.Protecting family..
Why...?
I need to be Self sufficient I need to sleep alone at night.No mother no support i needed from Others or Outerworld. I need to find wheather i can do it myself straight..
Things that i am going to do from now on to cultivate My feminine part(for Self dependency)
1.Sleep alone in a Room.
2.Wash my clothes.
3.Clean my plates that i eaten.
4.iron my shirts daily without anyones help.
Ok thats it extend it later...
Observations
1.Girls dont like Antifeminist sentiments.Infact they dont support feminsim fully but they also Have a Strong hate on Antifeminist people.
2.They will get rage when they were treated less on account of their Strength,Their intelligence or Courage or just because of the reason that they are girls.
Neutral Views
1 .Women in general dont accept man which is weak,whatever the reason even if it is a diabilty or Dusorder,still girls are repulsive towards men who are weak .
2.Women seriously mess around with Life till their marriage and they want husbands to treat them like princess. while they were so wrong in their lifestyles and they dont deserved ro be treated like a princess.
3.Women can sense weakness in Man.
4.They are Greatly prejudiced.
5.High case or extreme cases of feminity include annihilating or exterminating (brother,he,him,his,father,and ..) all sorts of Masculine Terms from their Dictionary.